What happens if you die tomorrow? How to make a valid will

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Disclaimer – I am not a lawyer, financial planner or accountant. The following is my understanding of how wills and estate planning works. I am sharing the process I took. Each state and country has their own laws governing wills and estate planning. I am writing as someone living in the state of Victoria, Australia. Please seek your own legal, financial and tax advice

Making a will is one of my 2022 goals.

How have I lived till 50 and not made a will??

Several reasons.

(1) I am single and have no dependants. So I never think it is a priority. Who cares if I’m dead?

(2) I don’t have many assets – I have nothing to leave anyone

(3) It’s too daunting and overwhelming a process – where do I even begin?

(4) I don’t want to think about my own demise

(5) It seems like a ‘too adult’ thing to do!

But … being on the path to Financial Independence has changed my mindset on making a will.

Because I do have assets now, after nearly four years on the FI path – a paid off home, growing shares portfolio and superannuation.

And when you have assets, you need a will. Full stop.

Because a will is essentially a legal document that sets out your wishes for what to do with your assets after you’re dead.

I didn’t think I cared much about what happens to my assets after I’m dead.

But it turns out that I do.

If you die without a valid will, the state decides how to distribute your assets. There is a set formula that considers your spouse, parents and dependants. If you don’t have any of them, your assets go to the state.

I’ve worked hard to build my assets. And at the end of the day, I’d like a say in how they are distributed. It would also make my loved ones’ lives easier if I leave clear instructions. And I would like to leave a meaningful legacy to the next generation if possible.


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What is a valid will?

A will is a legal document. And is valid if the following are fulfilled.

You must be of sound mind to make a will. That is, you must be able to understand what you are doing.

And not have done it under duress from another person.

You must be over 18 years old.

It must be in writing and intended as your will.

It must be signed by you in the presence of at least 2 witnesses and dated at the time of signing.

How to make a valid will

I explored 3 options on how to make a will – online will kit, State Trustees and an estate planning lawyer

(1) Online will kits

It’s very affordable and the process is simple. Fill in a questionnaire, submit for review and you get a written document; sign it (with 2 witnesses presumably) and keep it somewhere safe.

But in the end, I decided I needed more guidance and advice about my own situation. I was also concerned with how legal it is and did not want any hassles for the people left behind.

(2) State Trustees

This is another alternative as a low cost option. Thanks to @adultingworld on Twitter who suggested this option. I knew they can be appointed as administrators and executors but did not realise they had a will writing service.

It is a state government owned company – the are the Public Trustee of Victoria. Each state has their own service.

In my professional life, I have to deal with them. And felt they were too giant of a behemoth to interact with on a personal level. But they do have good information on their site.

(3) Estate planning lawyer

Rejecting the first two options means that I am now looking for a lawyer.

Googling estate planning lawyer in my area turned up a few names but I didn’t have much luck when I looked them up. Either because I didn’t relate to their profiles or the firm was too big and intimidating. After all, it’s not as if I have a great fortune or millions for anyone to fight over. Another one took weeks to email me a questionnaire.

I was about to give up when an Instagram friend who writes at iambuildingwealth.com recommended Head and Heart Estate Planning. I checked out her Instagram feeds and website, liked what I saw and booked a free 15 minute discovery meeting for the next morning.

And thank goodness, Lucy was very down to earth, answered all my questions which took longer than 15 minutes. Most importantly, I didn’t feel intimidated or stupid. She explained it in terms I understood and asked me thought provoking questions.

I can’t stress quite enough that making a will and going down the estate planning path is scary and confronting. Having someone you can relate to and who can guide you through the process is priceless.

Lastly, I don’t think anyone will contest my will. But I aslo can’t predict the future. So it’s for my peace of mind to have a proper will done with a specialist estate planning lawyer. There’s an excellent post about wills being contested on Money School.

What is estate planning?

I also didn’t know the difference between making a will and estate planning. I thought making a will was enough. But a will only looks after your assets when you’re dead.

What happens if you are still alive (eg after a stroke, dementia, accident) but can;t look after your own affairs?

That’s where an estate plan comes in – it provides for what to do after you’re dead (ie having a will) AND while you’re still alive but incapacitated (ie Power of Attorney for financial and lifestyle plus appointing a medical treatment decision maker).

And all of a sudden, the decisions and things to consider just compounded!

So now, not only do I have to think about what happens after I die but also who I’d like to appoint to make decisions about  my finances, lifestyle and medical issues if I’m incapacitated for whatever reason.

Questions and issues to consider when making a will

I will deal with the after death issues here and leave the before death issues to a separate post. The following is not meant to be an exhaustive list but these were the questions and issues I worked through with my lawyer.

Time frame

I was very confused about the timeframes. I kept thinking that there’ll be hardly anything left of my assets if I were to die in 20 or 30 years.

My lawyer very nicely pointed out – “No, no – we are talking about what happens if you die TOMORROW.”


Well, that was confronting! But it also brought clarity.

I don’t need to worry about what happens in 30 years – I just need to think about now and my current assets.

What are your current assets and liabilities?

You will need to list your current assets and their value. Plus any life insurance you may have, including the one in your superannuation.

I had no issue with this question because I track my net worth every month 🙂

This is also where you consider if you have any special possessions eg jewellery that you want to bequeath to certain people.

And income from a business or royalties from creative work etc.

How will you distribute your assets?

Who are your beneficiaries ie who will inherit your assets?

They can be organisations such as charities or schools or individuals.

If you are leaving assets to the next generation, consider if they are yet unborn. Will you, your siblings or cousins, for example, have more children? In an ideal world, you die after you’ve just updated your will but that may not be the case.

You can structure your will in layers as my lawyer describes it. For example, if my parents are still alive at the time of my death, I want them to tp be taken care of first before the other beneficiaries. But if they are deceased, then it can go to blah blah. And if blah blah is deceased, it can go to another person. And so forth.

Are your beneficiaries minors?

If they are minors now, what are your intentions?

Are you happy for them to inherit the money while they are minors? Or would you like them to have control at a more mature age? And what would that age be?

And if they are your children, who will look after them until they turn 18 ie who will be their guardian(s)? How will you provide for their guardian(s)?

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How can you protect your assets for your beneficiaries?

Unfortunately in our society, divorce and relationship breakdowns are more common than not. Will your beneficiary lose half their inheritance should their relationship break down?

Do you care how your money is to be used?

Do you want to specify how that money is to be used? For example, do you want the bulk of the estate left for the following generation and that this generation can use the income only? Or perhaps specify how the income should be used, perhaps for the education of the beneficiary while they are still minors? Or should the income be reinvested only?

The possibilities are endless.

Although it’s tempting to exert control from the grave, maybe it’s better to just let it be and let your beneficiary deal with their inheritance as they see fit. And also not bound the trustees too much as they carry out their duties and allow them some flexibility. 

Who will be your executor?

An executor is the person you appoint in your will to carry out your wishes as stated in the will upon your death.

It doesn’t have to be a person you know. It can be a professional executor or a company such as the State Trustees.

If it is someone you know, it should be someone you trust to carry out your wishes. It can be a huge undertaking. There will be many tasks starting with finding your will and organising your funeral, informing organisations you deal with of your death, selling properties and so on.

Are they competent or have the correct skill sets to do the job? Will they have time to do it properly? It may take years to settle a complicated estate.

You can appoint more than one executor. Or have executors as back up in case the first one is unable or unwilling to accept the job. But they will need to be able to work together. How will decisions be made?

And one of the executors must be an Australian resident for tax purposes as they need to file your final tax return and sign on your behalf. If your executor lives overseas, they cannot fulfill this obligation even though they may be Australian citizens.

Will you pay your executors a fee for performing the role? Or will you ask them to do it for free?

Testamentary trust

Consider setting up a testamentary trust if you want to protect the assets for your beneficiary. The trust only comes into effect upon your death. All your assets are then owned by the trust.

This is where you can specify how the income from your assets should be distributed. Who has access to this income? What can the income be used for?

The trust must have trustee(s) who look after the assets and carry out your wishes. Once again, consider the skill sets of the people you appoint as trustees. And whether they have the time to do all the tasks.

Once again, do you pay your trustees? Or will they do it for free?

There are other uses of a testamentary trust but I will be using it because my beneficiaries are under the age of 18 right now and I don’t want them touching the assets until they are 30 years of age. Yeah, I know – I am a mean aunty.


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Wait for it – the money in your superannuation is not part of your estate unless you have a binding death benefit nomination in place.

If you don’t have one in place, the Trustees of the superannuation fund decide who gets your money. Even if you’ve nominated certain people when you first joined the fund – these are non binding.

There are only certain people in your life who are deemed suitable to receive your superannuation. They must be a child, spouse or dependant. So I can’t leave it to a niece if that niece is not my dependant. I also cannot nominate my parents.

And this is where I get mad and think it is discriminatory towards single people. We have no choice but to nominate a legal personal representative who will then instruct that the superannuation benefits be part of our estate.

In addition, these binding death benefit nominations only last 3 years and must also be updated when circumstances change. The fund I’m with doesn’t provide an option for a longer timeframe. It is very frustrating!

The binding death benefit nomination forms can usually be downloaded from your superannuation’s website.

What happens if EVERYBODY you've nominated as your beneficiaries dies?

Should a tragic catastrophic event happens and all your beneficiaries die with you – who will inherit your assets?

This question also blew my mind. Now not only am I dead but so are all my loved ones!

My lawyer suggested that I think of some other people in my community or charities that can benefit from my assets. And stipulate percentages to each entity.

When should you update your will?

Wills are not a set and done ‘chore’. They need to be amended when circumstances change, for example if anyone named in your will dies before you; if your relationship status changes; if your assets change – you may dispose of an asset etc

I will add reviewing my will and checking my superannuation binding death benefit nomination to my annual financial checklist.

Final thoughts

That sounds ominous for this particular post!

Jokes aside, making a will can be confronting and overwhelming as we think about how we’d like to provide for our loved ones after our demise. And if we don’t have any loved ones, we can leave our assets to our favourite charities or other organisations that may benefit from our hard work.

There are so many questions, issues and scenarios to consider when making a will. I confess I needed a lie down after my first call ended with my lawyer.

The truth is that I do have assets after nearly four years on the path to financial independence. I do want to have a say in how they are distributed after my death. And I don’t want to leave a mess for those left behind. I also don’t want the will to be contested. And therefore have chosen to work with a specialist estate planning lawyer.

It is a worthwhile process.

Here are some resources if you wish to learn more about making a will and estate planning –

Money Smart

State Trustees

Legal Aid Victoria

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Consistency is my um, boring one word theme for 2022

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I do love setting goals at the beginning of the year. It gives me something to work towards for the next 12 months, signalling a hopeful and new beginning. Anything is possible!

And it builds on what was achieved in 2021.

January was tough for me, physically and mentally due to a stressful workload and difficult conditions at work. Thank you, Omicron. But that is behind me now.

And really, it’s NOT too late (that IS my message as a late starter 🤣) to set my goals for 2022 – it’s only the second week of the Lunar New Year!

I also want to try something new for 2022. New to me, that is.

I was inspired by Gretchen Rubin’s podcast episode on choosing a ONE word theme for the new year.

And so I will choose a one word theme for 2022. A word that will guide my actions and when life happens, I’ll just come back to this word to right the ship again.

🥁 My one word is CONSISTENCY.

It’s a boring word, to be sure.

But quite honestly, I’m tired of the stops and starts I’ve had in all areas of my life. I just want to be CONSISTENT and keep at it. Stay the course.

I also know ahead of time that I will fail at it. But I want to then get up and get back on he horse again immediately instead of beating myself up.

What are my goals for 2022 with the word Consistency in mind?

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Goal 1 - Invest $30k into my shares portfolio

Stay the course.

I did this for 2021 and I will continue to invest $30k into my shares portfolio for 2022.

My retirement date is set for 31 Dec 2026. That is 1786 days away or 58 months of work left. I will be 55 and a few months old.

My original plan to fund the 5 years before I can access my superannuation (ie from age 55 to 60) is to sell down my shares portfolio every year. And have one to two years of living expenses in cash, just in case the market isn’t cooperating at the time I retire.

However this plan has evolved. All because I started tracking my dividends as an exercise to track passive income in 2021.

Before 2021, I had no idea how much my dividend income was because the majority was reinvested immediately via Dividend Reinvestment Plans (DRPs). Cash did not hit my bank account so I was oblivious. Out of sight, out of mind.

So I was pleasantly surprised by the result.

I started to think that perhaps I won’t have to sell the entire portfolio. I could live on the dividends and make up the rest with cash. Unfortunately as a late starter, I just don’t have the timeline to have a big enough portfolio to live off its dividends alone.

By the end of 2021, my dividends were at 42% of my target for retirement. This target is based on half of my projected annual living expenses. It would be awesome if this target is exceeded – that would mean I need to save less cash.

So I’m giving myself two years to invest as much as I can into this shares portfolio. I will then reassess the dividend income and determine how much cash I need to save. At this stage, my plan is to save up to 2 years of living expenses in cash regardless. I will have 3 years to do so.

I can always revert to my original plan to sell down the portfolio if Plan B doesn’t work. Or at least sell off the individual shares I own and keep the ETFs and LICs. Based on my original plan, I’m at 77% of my target portfolio value.

We’ll see – it’s all a big experiment 😬


Goal 2 - Rebuild my emergency fund

This was impacted by my horror year of home maintenance costs in 2021. Once again, I will stay the course and continue to build it back up to 6 months of living expenses. It will form part of the 2 years of living expenses I need at the start of my retirement.

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Goal 3 - Make a will

I can’t put this off any longer. It just seems such a daunting undertaking.

How do I find a lawyer? What do I have to consider besides who to leave my assets to if I get hit by a bus tomorrow?

So 2022 is my deadline to make a will and set up binding death benefit nominations in my superannuation. Sounds ominous!

Goal 4 - Make health and wellbeing a priority

This is where I need consistency the most.

The money goals are much easier to achieve now that I’ve been pursuing Financial Independence (FI) for three and a half years. Most of my saving and investing are automated anyway so I just have to review them every now and then to make sure I’m still on track.

But prioritising self care is HARD. It can’t be automated, sigh.

By self care I mean taking care of my physical and mental health.

I still want to lose 5kg.

So I need to eat better, snack less often and learn to de-stress without resorting to chips and chocolate. I have to stick to my daily stretching and exercising. How on earth will I run a marathon or hop on and off little boats in Antarctica (both decade goals) if I am unfit? Oh and sleep better – so I am rested and rejuvenated to start the day energised.

As I age, my healthcare costs will only increase, as evidenced by my 2021 expenses. My medical category (which includes osteopath treatments, remedial massages, GP visits, psychologist, pathology, medical procedure etc) was the fifth biggest category at 7.9% of total expenses. So it is time to make sure I take care of myself and lower this cost.


Goal 5 - Prepare for the non-financial aspects of retirement

The financial aspect of my retirement plan is under control as I’ve spent the last three and a half years focusing on it.

It’s time now to explore the non-financial aspects.

What will be my purpose in retirement? What activities will I start exploring now? I have started to jot down ideas for travel – this list will be very long!

And as part of this goal, I want to prioritise activities that bring me joy and do more of them in 2022. This way I won’t be at a loss when I finally retire. None of that ‘but what will I do if I retire?’ dilemma here.

Final thoughts

I know the last two goals are a bit iffy – how will I know if I’ve achieved them?

For goal 4 – I will feel better physically and mentally

And goal 5 – I will have lots of activities written down. And I will document my progress on Instagram as I explore activities throughout the year. Follow me on Instagram to check out my progress and keep me accountable 🙂

Anyway, my real goal is to be consistent in pursuing these activities. The very act of putting my goals here will hold me accountable.

Plus the most valuable lesson I learnt in 2021 was that taking small steps in the right direction was better than not taking any steps at all.

I’m excited for more progress in 2022!

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