With 5 years to retirement, I decided it was time to work on the non financial aspects of retirement. I don’t want to wake up on a Monday morning after my last day of work the previous Friday, not knowing what to do. I know I’ll probably sleep in for the first six months, but then what?
I can confirm that I love reading. In fact, I read 74 books in 2022, most of which were fiction. I hadn’t set a goal – just read whenever I wanted. And it was often!
The majority of the books were borrowed from public libraries via the Libby app. It saved me from going nuts in a London attic while I had Covid. I did buy a few non fiction books as they were not available from my libraries.
The last time I travelled overseas was in 2019. So, after my trip to the UK in July, I can confirm that I love travelling – specifically exploring new places and eating the local cuisine (from the humble shortbread to fine dining). When the plane took off, I thought about how much I’d miss it – that feeling of freedom as I looked out at the clouds and anticipation of the fun ahead.
Thanks to Covid, I missed out on meeting up with Sam (Late Starter to FI Series #2) in UK. I managed to meet up with Weenie, a fellow late starter who shares her journey at Quietly Saving in Manchester. I’d never been to Manchester and hadn’t met Weenie before either. We exchanged photos and arranged to have dinner. But hilariously, we met at a random street corner waiting for the traffic light to change, earlier in the day. I was shocked when I heard someone behind me say “Excuse me, are you …?” It was such a comical moment! Literally, she was the only person I ‘knew’ in Manchester!
I had so much fun talking to Weenie over dinner. It was like we’d been friends forever. We had a lot in common and it was reassuring to know that someone else in a similar situation was progressing well to FIRE.
Before my holiday, I also met up in real life with Frogdancer Jones (Late Starter to FI Series #14) and Adulting World (Late Starter to FI Series #4). Once again, we all had a lot in common and it was such a joy to share our stories, progress and plans for the future.
So I can confirm that I love meeting up with like minded late starters pursuing FIRE. I can definitely do more of these meet ups when I retire.
I’ve loved re establishing my relationship with my little niece. The time spent creating new memories and building on old memories with her is so precious and worthwhile.
I used to love attending musicals & plays in my younger days, especially while on holidays. Yes, I can confirm that I still love them. In 2022, I ventured out to Hamilton in Melbourne; Life of Pi, Six and 101 Dalmatians in London. I also attended the Lume for the Van Gogh immersive sensory experience in Melbourne.
Of course, I can confirm that I still love eating – hello, cholesterol & weight struggles! I love researching where to eat, what to eat and then finally eating it – during my holidays as I’m bit more boring when I’m home.
I discovered I quite like hiking when I hiked a few trails in the Isle of Skye by myself. I can certainly see myself doing more hiking when I retire.
This was a bit more wishy washy as a goal – but I’m going to claim a win as I’ve rediscovered and confirmed activities that I love and who I like connecting with.